- What causes the rate of depression in women to double at the age of 13 from 4 to 8%?
- What then causes the rate to double again from 8% to 16% when women are pregnant?
- Why is it that an average of 4% of men and 16% of women depressed? This is a staggering difference!
The research so far has not identified a solid connection with hormones; the fact is, we really don’t know. This phenomenon is not isolated to Australia; it is an international occurrence.
Why is Depression in Women so common?
After extensive reading on the topic, I’ve decided that the change in depression rates is caused by social role changes.
It makes sense that at age 13, most girls start to look older and succumb to identifying with the “must have” womanly body image, expectations about being relationship focused (i.e. caring) and conversations about the future career change to peer relationships.
This same event happens at the beginning of pregnancy. Significant changes in body image and the expectations of others, can be very difficult to accommodate when women are already dealing with all the physical aspects of pregnancy!
In my role as a psychologist I particularly enjoy working with women to discover which expectations and social rules are making life unbearable, and to help them develop skills to weather the changes that occur.
It is surprisingly less about a women’s thoughts, but others’ thoughts that are the issue. Lots of changes have to be made as a teenager turning into a woman; and as a woman turning into mother.
If you are struggling to parent teenage girls, or you have planning to have a baby and feel this could be affecting you, please book in one session and we can review the risk factors together and I can suggest a few tricks that will help you with the changes.
If you are experiencing depression already, then we might take a couple more sessions to try strategies to help you recover. If you are expecting a baby, counselling would be the first option and has been proven to be very effective – and infinitely preferable to taking medication while you are pregnant.
Author: Vivian Jarrett MAPS, MAICD, B Psych (hon), GCert (ResCom)
***Finalist Telstra Business Women’s Awards Qld – Entrepreneur
Vivian Jarrett is a psychologist, passionate about providing high quality psychology services to Australians from all walks of life.
She has worked extensively with women, especially during pregnancy and the ante-natal period.